Tuesday, December 20, 2011

1st Week!

Well this first week has been very instructional! I have read to rule 5! I have learned that I have not been approaching dating in all the wrongs ways the way I thought! I definitely have a lot of things to work on but I am in the right mind set:) So I will let you in on some of the insights I have learned so far! Rule #1 Be a "Creature Unlike Any Other"! Be feminine and positive and happy! This is a quote that I really like and something I will definitely say this to myself daily...
"I am a beautiful woman! I am enough."
I like this because it is so true... He'll either love you or not. It's not your fault if he doesn't call again. You are beautiful inside and out. Someone else will love you if he doesn't. All that matters is you end the date first rule#11
I also really liked this as well and will be telling this to myself daily..."Any man would be lucky to have me" until it sinks in and you start to believe it
This is what i hope happens for me! Do the rules and trust that one day a prince will notice that you are different from all other women he's know!
Rule #2 Don't Talk to a Man First (and Don't Ask Him to Dance)
This Rule is something that I do very well! It's hard waiting for the right one the one who talks to you first calls and basically does most of the work in the beginning of the relationship! He does this because he must have you! I don't like talking to boys because it just make me a nervous wreck but I like this book makes okay for me not to be the one to approach first! The one thing it said that I need to work on is not looking so nervous!
So this week my goal is to act natural around boys at work and church! Also putting myself out there and lettin people know I want to date! Cause of course there is nothing wrong with wanting to date, I have to keep telling myself this! Well I hope you all enjoyed! :) Sami

Tuesday, December 13, 2011

The New Direction!!!

Well as you can tell from my new header I am going to change the direction my blog is going! I am going to bring the world into my dating life (or the non-existence of it!) I am sure you are all wondering how this idea started, well I will tell you how this CRAZY CRAZY idea got into my head...
I decided to go to the library and pick up yet another romance novel. Of course i did find one, it's not as hard you'd think. Then I began to wander around, which is never a good idea, and soon found myself looking through the "how to" section. That is where I found the book The Rules: Time-tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider. I thought to myself this could be good, I am in dire need of some kind of help, and this could be fun. I know, I know I am only 23, I'm young, and have all the time in the world before I settle down. It also has been close to 2 years since my last date, pathetic I know! Maybe this will help me get out of my comfort zone and my dating FUNK! So why not try it out and make my blog about something interesting instead of my boring life! So I hope you all enjoy it! If nothing else comes out of this then hopefully i will have some funny stories to tell!
I have only read a couple pages so far but I have found a few phrases I wanted to share with all of you...
"Follow The Rules, and he will not just marry you, but feel crazy about you, forever!" Not that I am looking for Marriage tomorrow but that is eventually what I want!
"If you follow The Rules, you can rest assured that your husband will treat you like a queen - even when he's angry with you. Why? Because he spent so much time trying to get you. You have become so precious to him that he doesn't take you for granted. He always wants to do things together." That is the type of man I am attracted to, so this should help...Right?
Well I will let you know how this goes! Time for bed so... Good Night!